SATC and The L Word

Two very surprising things happened this past weekend in New York:

1) When I went looking for action from a man I considered a reliable source, I was denied. 

2) When I wasn't looking for anything, a man told me he is in love with me.

I thought it would take me a while to get over 1, but 2 is providing quite a distraction. Lots of processing taking place over here in my head.